Fostering Together

We understand that fostering can be both challenging and rewarding. We have developed Fostering Together to ensure our foster carers receive the support they deserve to help our children in their care.

Imagine being part of a community where children feel safe, supported, and truly seen and where foster carers never feel like they’re doing it alone. That’s the heart of Fostering Together, Bexley’s unique approach to fostering.

Fostering together team at Josh Bay
Designed for real life, Fostering Together is flexible, supportive, and shaped for people who want to make a difference while balancing work, family, and everything else life brings. You’re not just fostering; you will be part of strong community of experienced foster carer, who are there to support you every step of the way.

Our communities

Each Fostering Together community is made up of approximately 6 to 8 fostering families who are viewed as extended members of the Core Carers home.

The Core Carer is an experienced foster carer who leads the community, offering foster families, peer support, guidance, knowledge, and experience; alongside, social activities and sleepovers. Helping to strengthen relationships and empower families to support each other.

If you work and are worried about how fostering could fit into your life Fostering Together is the ideal for you.

Our foster carers have told us that there are lots of benefits of belonging to a Fostering Together community.

 

Benefits for the children and young people

  • more stability - they don’t have to keep moving home
  • more consistent and familiar relationships with other children and foster carers
  • a warm, extended-family feel that helps them feel included

Benefits for foster carers

  • a strong network of other foster carers you can rely on
  • better support from people who understand fostering
  • help for you and the children during difficult or crisis moments crisis and difficult times
  • increased confidence and improved wellbeing

Meet our Core Carers and hear their voice!

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Image of Holly - Core Carer

What I have come to realise in my time fostering with Bexley, is that there’s nothing quite like talking to other foster carers and having that support from each other".

Holly, Core Carer

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Image of Amara - Core Carer

Fostering Together means that no carer is alone, we are there to help each other, we are there for each other, anytime, no matter the situation".

Amara, Core Carer

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Image of Holly - New Core Carer

I have seen a difference since being a part of Fostering Together. I have seen a difference in the children, because as time goes on, they learn to trust me and I get to see how they are really feeling".

Tracy, Core Carer

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A picture of Dahlia and Remington

What we do together with our community is laugh, chat, have a good cup of tea and help carers through any troubles they may have. We are in this together as a community, helping people along their fostering journeys".

Dahlia and Remington, Core Carers

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A picture of Ana and Mark

The most important thing is to help the children to feel as if they belong and to help them build relationships with trusted adults. It’s about creating a foundation where they feel safe to express themselves and develop the confidence to form lasting connections".

Ana and Mark, Core Carers 

Be a supporting foster carer by joining the Fostering Together community

This role is all about becoming a steady, reliable part of the support system that surrounds children and young people in care. It’s not full‑time fostering it focuses on providing foster carers with the practical and emotional support they need so they can continue offering stable, nurturing homes.

What the role involves

  • Providing daytime care or short breaks for children who are already living with their families or full‑time foster carers.
  • Offering practical support that helps foster carers recharge, manage commitments, and maintain a healthy balance.
  • Being part of a wider network that ensures children in care feel safe, supported, and connected to consistent adults.

Why does it matter?

When foster carers feel supported, the children in their care benefit enormously. Your involvement strengthens the whole system around them, helping to create stability, reduce stress, and improve overall well‑being.

What you gain

  • Comprehensive training and development, so you feel confident and equipped to make a positive impact
  • A meaningful way to contribute, even if you don’t have a spare bedroom or aren’t ready for full‑time fostering
  • A chance to explore fostering, giving you real experience before deciding whether you’d like to take on a full‑time role in the future
  • Flexibility, allowing you to fit support around your own life while still making a genuine difference

Supporting Foster Carers step in at key moments, offering care, consistency, and kindness. You become someone a child can rely on and someone a foster family can trust. It’s a role that blends practicality with compassion, and it has a ripple effect that reaches far beyond each visit or short break.

Want to find out more?

  • talk to a friendly member of our team - 020 3045 4400 (Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm)